Today I sat and eagerly awaited a phone call from my first friend, who wished to be with me in all my odd times and supported me too. She is none other than my little sister, who is busy preparing for her marriage ceremonies. I was five when she was born. I still remember sitting outside the OT room where my mom went, saying she would be just back in a moment. Somewhere I knew that she was in pain, but I was happy that my friend in crime or my partner was about to come. I was much happier than anyone else when the doctor introduced me to the little angel, my dearest sister, Prerna.
She slowly became my soul's heart and never left me alone till we studied together in school. But time has to take your test, and so was mine. I went to college, and she was still in school. After a few years, when she left school, she was urged to join a college out of town for better study. I was always her spine, and so was she.
As she joined college, she used to stay in a hostel and come only on weekends. I started missing her a lot. Her life in hostel taught her many skills and life's experiences that I lacked. Sometimes I felt there was a change in opinion and liking that could be easily felt, but I used to ignore it as I just wished for my sister's happiness. For me, only her happiness was the priority. She knew this well and used me to fulfill her wishes with our parents.
I missed her so much that I wished that I could spend some time with her. I remember when she got a six-month break after college for a wait till her result was out, we used to spend most of the time eating and playing games. That time was the best, as we used to spend our leisure time making videos of her dancing, which she uploaded all on YouTube. Her efforts fruitened, and she won the prize from Madhuri Dixit as the best dancer, and an iPad was sent to our home.
She was so happy that she could not resist her happiness that our whole family did a grand party on her achievement. Later, she got a job and stayed there. She used to visit only once a month as per her time. Even I got married, and our desire to spend time together became very less.
Our bond still lies afresh whenever she calls for any help or me asking for any help. We both are so dominating on each other that we forget at times that there should be some personal space to be provided too. But this is our strength that I will always be proud of.
Today, when she is about to be married, I have a lot of plans to be discussed and worked upon for our additional member and my best friend's husband. I hope for a happy married life for them.
This post is a part of "Friend Indeed Blog Hop" hosted by Manali Desai and Sukaina Majeed.
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This was so heart warming. I have 2 sisters .And it's true we are as thick as friends.growing up I remember we did not require anyone one else.
ReplyDeletePreparing for their weddings were so special.I sure you will have grest time too
This was so heart warming. I have 2 sisters .We are as thick as friends.growing up I remember we did not require anyone one else. And preparing for their weddings is even more special.I sure you will have a blessed day.
ReplyDeleteSisters are always our first partners in crime. This is a bond like no other. I had a school friend who was very very close to her sister. In fact, when my friend would come to see me, her little sister would also tag along. I would often wonder how they would live away from each other when they get married. Your story reminded me of those siblings.
ReplyDeleteWow, these key takeaways are awesome. Such a beautiful relationship when friends and their spouses join the gang.
ReplyDeleteA very balanced view on friendship. I agree with you that your best friend can at times be a threat too by spilling the beans, by not being there when you need them the most, by ignoring us... In the end a lot of good memories linger.
ReplyDeleteHeart touching. You are very lucky to have a sister as best friend. My best friend was my cousin sister but after her marriage our bond loose and somehow it was totally disconnected.
ReplyDeleteWhat better can we ask for when the siblings become the best friends. Though they are also not going to stay forever but they will be by your side when you most need them.
ReplyDeleteThis was so sweet to read. I have a younger sister and she's definitely my friend too. She's the one I can talk to about anything and I know she will call me out when I'm being stubborn. What a great bond you have Shifali!
ReplyDeleteThis is such a heartfelt and beautifully written reflection on the bond between siblings. Your love and deep connection with your sister shine through every word. It’s clear that despite the changes life brings, the strength of your relationship remains unshakable. Wishing her all the happiness in her new journey, and may your bond continue to grow even stronger with time.
ReplyDeleteI do not have a sister and if I would have one, probably our relationship would be like this! Such a heartwarming one! And as you rightly said, they spill out the secrets too! But yes, that is the fun.
ReplyDeleteWhat a touching and heartfelt reflection on the special bond between siblings. Your story beautifully captures the essence of a sister as both a friend and confidant through all of life's ups and downs. It’s wonderful to see such a deep connection and the support you've both given each other. Wishing Prerna all the happiness in her new journey, and may your bond continue to grow stronger with each passing day.
ReplyDeleteAww this was so cute. I love that you love your sister so much. I have an older brother and it's a different experience but he's still someone I share a lot of stuff with. I loved reading this!
ReplyDeletehaving a sister as a woman gives us an experience nothing else can. The dynamics are totally different. Really made me think about my dynamics with my sis.
ReplyDeleteSuch a sweet and heart warming post. You're indeed blessed to have a sister who you can call your best friend.
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