Friend in need, is a friend Indeed

 Today I sat and eagerly awaited a phone call from my first friend, who wished to be with me in all my odd times and supported me too. She is none other than my little sister, who is busy preparing for her marriage ceremonies. I was five when she was born. I still remember sitting outside the OT room where my mom went, saying she would be just back in a moment. Somewhere I knew that she was in pain, but I was happy that my friend in crime or my partner was about to come. I was much happier than anyone else when the doctor introduced me to the little angel, my dearest sister, Prerna.

She slowly became my soul's heart and never left me alone till we studied together in school. But time has to take your test, and so was mine. I went to college, and she was still in school. After a few years, when she left school, she was urged to join a college out of town for better study. I was always her spine, and so was she.

As she joined college, she used to stay in a hostel and come only on weekends. I started missing her a lot. Her life in hostel taught her many skills and life's experiences that I lacked. Sometimes I felt there was a change in opinion and liking that could be easily felt, but I used to ignore it as I just wished for my sister's happiness. For me, only her happiness was the priority. She knew this well and used me to fulfill her wishes with our parents.

I missed her so much that I wished that I could spend some time with her. I remember when she got a six-month break after college for a wait till her result was out, we used to spend most of the time eating and playing games. That time was the best, as we used to spend our leisure time making videos of her dancing, which she uploaded all on YouTube. Her efforts fruitened, and she won the prize from Madhuri Dixit as the best dancer, and an iPad was sent to our home.

She was so happy that she could not resist her happiness that our whole family did a grand party on her achievement. Later, she got a job and stayed there. She used to visit only once a month as per her time. Even I got married, and our desire to spend time together became very less. 

Our bond still lies afresh whenever she calls for any help or me asking for any help. We both are so dominating on each other that we forget at times that there should be some personal space to be provided too. But this is our strength that I will always be proud of.

Today, when she is about to be married, I have a lot of plans to be discussed and worked upon for our additional member and my best friend's husband. I hope for a happy married life for them. 

Key takeaways:

💕 The person who is always beside you can be your best friend and has the capability of spilling all your secrets too.

💕 We stood by each other's side in each good or bad and later learned that some were just not even required.

💕 When We found each other indulging in some other person or making some other friend leaving  the other one. There was a strong jealousy factor or anger visible to all, i.e, still prevalent till now. This habit if ours didnt allow us yo make more friends.

💕 We learnt to value each other despite our flaws. Though none of us is perfect, but there are certain things or love for each other that make us hurt on even a jerk by the other.

💕 Our hearts are still pious and honest to ourselves. We may be angry from above but deep inside we still love each other and we know that no other person can ever take our place whatever the situation may be.

This post is a part of "Friend Indeed Blog Hop" hosted by Manali Desai and Sukaina Majeed.

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