Introduction
With the onset of February month when teenagers or adults are trying to dive deep in love or seek new love, school-going children are facing the fear of exams that are about to be held in March. These little children are under immense pressure from parents and teachers. Parents are taking extra pains to find extra time so that they can prepare their kids for exams and they can score good marks.
Almost every home who have school-going children faces the same sense of stress and anxiety. Little kids are mostly noticed under the eye of their mothers who keep a strict watch on their studies and try their level best to make them prepared. At times mothers of these kids are seen to be more learning rather than kids themselves.
Teenagers are consistently pushed towards tuition classes so that they can make their concepts clear and take as many tests as possible. Many teens are seen digging deep into studies or waking up all night and learning their concepts.
In this ongoing scenario, the children who can cope with pressure survive. But the ones who take this pressure to a certain limit face health issues or make serious decisions if face failures. This phase of preparing for exams has a long-lasting impact on children.
What is Exam Phobia or Examinophobia?
Test fear or exam fear is the anxiety toward tests. It is an unexplained, extreme feeling of dread toward a circumstance (assessments) that prompts evasion of the circumstance. This exorbitant and silly apprehension about tests prompts expanded degrees of nervousness in understudies and deteriorates with no legitimate assistance or direction.
Let's discuss these reasons for their overstress and anxiety :
👽 Children do not study consistently. They leave their curriculum for exam time. During exams when they cannot adhere to the topics they adopt irrelevant methods to cope with pressure from parents.
👽 Some students could not understand the topics because of varied reasons. Some have the poor capability or understanding to indulge in the concepts, at times some teachers are not clear enough to the students but the fault is put on the shoulders of the kids themselves.
👽 In schools where rich students study are seen to be delving into drugs or sometimes kids are diverted towards the wrong means of drinking by poking peers or wrong company.
👽 Extreme stress over exams.
👽Feeling dubious about the assessment process.
👽Worried about the outcomes after the outcomes. Particularly, in families where guardians aren't supportive on the off chance that the researcher scores less.
👽High assumptions from guardians, family members, and society.
👽Lack of certainty could lead to a fear of tests when presented with a stressful situation.
👽Poor nurturing may be one of the principal reasons. The climate where the scholar grows influences the character of the researcher. Inside the house where guardians always quarrel, the youngster grows up as an unreliable individual or a person with low self-esteem. During tests, this weakness could create more pressure and cause examinophobia.
Examinophobics experience the ill effects of hypertension, serious assessment stress, failure to concentrate, and unexpected amnesia. Such side effects could cause adverse results intellectually also as genuinely. The children could experience the ill effects of heaving and the runs. Assuming the researcher is uncovered to worry for a drawn out time of your time, it could lead to sorrow also. Exam dread or fear of tests is pervasive however it's one of the littlest sum recognized disorders. The most extreme sum since it is essential to know the delicate idea of this request, it's even more vital to kill it, to deal with the extraordinary mental condition of youth.
How to overcome Exam Phobia?
1. Early Amendment:
An early amendment will assist you with finishing reading up for the test before time. You will have adequate opportunity to update each subject from the schedule. This way you won't pass up any subjects and will be good to go for your tests.
2. Make Your Schedule:
Each understudy has an alternate technique for contemplating. In this way, it assists with making your plan, according to your prerequisites and inclinations. Think about how much time you can sit in one spot and concentrate without getting diverted. Set the schedule and concentrate in like manner and you will see your uneasiness levels altogether lower.
3. Have an Arrangement Prepared:
Outline an arrangement for getting ready for your tests in light of which subjects need more consideration and which are the subjects you are exhaustive with. Make cheat sheets, stream outlines, charts, and pictures while amending, and afterwards, utilize these for somewhat late correction before your tests.
4. Blend Subjects:
Concentrate on all subjects equally. Distribute a particular measure of time to update each subject, despite how troublesome or simple it could be. This way you will have changed every one of the subjects without passing up any.
On the off chance that you have any trouble in a specific subject, get your questions cleared by your educators or guardians. Staying away from subjects that appear to be extreme will just prompt apprehension about that specific test and lead to a horrible showing in that paper.
5. Get ready Notes:
While concentrating on a subject or updating a part, record highlights of significant places, like dates, occasions, individuals, occurrences, and so forth. Utilize these while composing replies to make them rich and noteworthy.
6. Enjoy Reprieves:
At the point when you make a schedule for your correction, ensure you dispense in the middle between. Reading up for extended periods is burdening for the psyche and the body. It additionally prompts interruptions and loss of concentration.
Have some time off each little while and invest that energy in accomplishing something you appreciate, like a side interest, such as singing, moving, painting, or simply conversing with your folks or companions. This revives the psyche and works on your fixation and your energy levels.
7. Rest soundly:
A decent night's rest is fundamental for a solid psyche and body. Ensure you get an undisturbed 8 hours of rest consistently. Try not to work really hard! All things being equal, rest early and get up early so you can plunk down to concentrate in the mornings with a new psyche.
8. Keep up with Your Penmanship:
A decent penmanship works on your possibilities scoring great imprints. Understudies will more often than not disregard their composition as they attempt to complete their papers in time.
Settling mock tests before tests will give you enough composing practice and an opportunity to neatly work on composition. It will assist you with working on finishing your test in time by speeding up.
Settling mock tests before tests will give you enough composing practice and an opportunity to neatly work on composition. It will assist you with working on finishing your test in time by speeding up.
9. Try not to Contrast Your Presentation And Others:
Continuously recall that each understudy is novel. Their capacities vary thus will their exhibition in tests. Guardians/Parents should make sure to cease contrasting their kids and others, as there will continuously be a distinction between the two.
Understudies ought to likewise try not to contrast their presentation and that of their companions and spotlight their work. This will decrease the uneasiness among understudies and assist them with showing up for their tests with a quiet brain.
10. Incorporate Headings and Subheadings:
While replying, utilize headings and subheadings. This assists the inspector with understanding what you have replied and how. Make little passages as opposed to composing long ones. This causes your composition to seem neater. It will have a decent effect on your teacher and increment your possibility of scoring great.
Conclusion
Exams are a part of life so instead of fearing for it, FACE IT! One should never forget that these exams are only meant to make us more capable and not devoid us of our essential qualities of resilience, patience and courage. Parents should become the strong support system for their kids and help them dive from this difficult phase easily and not be judgemental about the outcomes. Stay positive, stay healthy!
This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with Bohemian Bibliophile.
Great tips for not only children but parents too , Shifali and timely too with the board exams going on in India. By being prepared and working throughout the year and by adopting a nice way of presenting the answers, one can be confident of scoring more and stay relaxed.
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DeleteSuch amazing tips about examination and how to get rid of exam phobia. I am sure apart from the students, parents will get benefits from the tips too. Sharing with my friends too.
ReplyDeleteThis might be weird but when I was in school, I really loved exam days! Maybe because they were not routine school days and we got off earlier than regular school days!! And I loved studying for exams! And now that I have kids, they are in schools where they dont have to give exams. My elder one is in 9th and for the first time in his life is now giving exams!!
ReplyDeleteGood tips. Student have to study regularly then only they can gain confidence. Your tips are good for parents too. Instead of putting pressure on exam start early. As a parent we have to guide them to take study lightly and study regularly with decided goals then only stress will reduce.
ReplyDeleteThese tips are a lifesaver for both kids and parents, especially with my son knee-deep in board exams. Being prepared and putting in the work all year round is the secret sauce for confidence and a chill mindset. When friends ask why I'm not stressed, I just feel there's no point – they'll give their best based on their capabilities.
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These are great tips. Exams are usually made out to be some kind of a demon and it affects the children too. Being well prepared and not taking it like a life or death thing will help reduce the fear.
ReplyDeleteThat’s really helpful. For sure these exams pressure is a lot for kids. As they grow up. Great tips if one follow
ReplyDeleteA timely and informative post. The reasons for exam fear is so apt in my children's case and the solutions given by you are so doable and simple. Will try to incorporate them IRL.
ReplyDeleteInstead of fearing it, face it! Well put because exams, whether academic ones or in life in general, are inevitable. This is a very comprehensive, helpful and practical list for parents as well as students
ReplyDeleteNo matter how much children are prepared, the last minute stress is unavoidable. Schools must work not just with the portions but also to help children relieve stress.
ReplyDeleteMy son is appearing for his boards this year so I can see the exam stress up close. I always tell him to manage his studying and sleep schedule properly so he's relaxed when he's writing his papers. A good atmosphere at home is important too.
ReplyDeleteMy younger self would have appreciated this alot.
ReplyDeleteMy question is to all adults here. Do you still have dreams that you prepared for the wrong exam? I wish someone taught us how to deal 2ith this pressure. Great tips.
ReplyDeleteA brilliant post by you Shifali and I strongly believe that every school going parent should read it and implement the same in their kids schedule. What I was thinking is that I will share your link to all my neighbourhood kids moms to read it and understand it and implement the same. Your efforts to pen down this informative post should reach maximum parents. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThe pressure from parents and teachers, coupled with the fear of exams, can indeed create a challenging environment for young students. It's important to recognize the symptoms of exam phobia, such as hypertension, difficulty concentrating, and even physical symptoms like vomiting and diarrhea. Addressing these symptoms and providing proper support and guidance to students is crucial in mitigating the impact of exam stress. Thank you for shedding light on this important topic and providing valuable insights into managing exam phobia.
ReplyDeleteOh wow what a timely post this is . Very much useful for both parents and kids. Will definitely share across.
ReplyDeleteThat is a useful post for students taking exams. All the tips are top notch and I suffered from blank memory and anxiety during the student phase of my life. Awesome write up.
ReplyDeleteThese are some very practical and doable tips. With exam comes anxiety and fear, it's natural therefore it's important to know how to deal with it.
ReplyDeleteThese tips are the much need of the hour ..as this is appropriate time . Exam time .
ReplyDeleteSuch wonderful tips for the students to fight exam phobia. Early preparation and having a positive mindset during exam time is so very important.
ReplyDeleteexam phobia is real :( these are good tips and really being regular is such a pivotal point.
ReplyDeleteYou have shared very sound advice for dealing with a tough time in student's lives.
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